The nurse practitioner part of me comes out in this
post. Educating others about health
ranks high on my priority list and information about mental health has a
special place in my heart. The National Institute of Mental Health’s web site
offers statistics about generalized anxiety disorder. This disorder, known as
GAD, affects more than 5 percent of the adult population in a lifetime. The average
age of onset of symptoms is over 30. As with most mental health issues, GAD is
likely under reported and many suffer in silence because of the stigma
associated with mental illness or lack of information regarding the illness and
its treatment.
I have worked in the mental health setting a long time. I
have been around a little longer than Prozac. I have seen, diagnosed and
treated many individuals with GAD. I have seen how GAD can destroy lives and
upset families. Treatment often includes medications and/or counseling. What I
have observed is that aside from formal treatment, suffers need support,
empathy and quite a bit of behavior modification.
MEDICATIONS
I am not going into details about the medications that are
used to treat GAD. All I am going to say is that medications come with side
effects and risks. Medication choices vary from provider to provider. The truth
is that some providers do treat GAD with medications that have a high addictive
potential. Yes, I know that ALL the literature says that addictive medications
SHOULD not be used, but in the real world, they are being used and abused. All
I know is that person cannot have side effects from a medication they have
never taken and there is no such thing as a safe medication.
THERAPY
Therapy proves to be effective and some studies may indicate
even more effective than medications. However, therapy may or may not be
covered under insurance plans and without coverage, many folks just cannot
afford therapy. Also, it takes two to tango and a receiver of therapy has to
interested and engaged in getting better. Do not dismiss the number of people
who do not want to either improve or appear to improve because of secondary
gain. It happens.
MY WAY OF EDUCATING
I am a simple guy, in more ways than one. I relate that
before I begin to educate and I explain that I use analogies often. I have two
favorites to use in teaching about GAD, and, yes, I know they both involve
food. You use what you know best, I suppose.
ALL YOU CAN EAT
Let me tell you, when the Hipes Clan shows up at an “All You
Can Eat” place, the owners run to try and lock the doors. So, they give you
this tiny plate (a trough would be too small) and you pile it up with all the
items on the buffet. You start the high wire act- carefully balancing and
trying to get to the table without spillage. Undoubtedly, something falls off
and hits the floor..forgetaboutit..
In GAD, you have hit the Worry Buffet way too hard. You push
stuff on the plate of life at every opportunity and then something you need
falls off your plate and out of your mind. Worry causes difficulty in
remembering things. You worry so much you feel you are losing your mind, in
addition to your car keys, shoes and wallet.
THE WHOLE PIZZA
My second analogy involves the pizza of your choice made by
your favorite pizza pie artist. And, it is all yours. You are salivating and
may be mistaken for being rabid. Then, you open wide and try to “one bite” the
whole pie. What? You cannot do it? Why? Because it is too much to ingest and
digest at once and if you try you make choke? Wow, that does not stop a person
with GAD from trying to “swallow” all their worries and the others they usually
take on just so they can reinforce their worries. Plus, with all those constant
worries comes the sense that a person with GAD must do MORE so that no one will
know they are worried about everything. Cut the dang pie into bite sized
pieces. Go after the small worries first because they are weak and will die
quickly.
I know me and I know that I will someday approach GAD in
this blog. I do try and contain my inner NP, but sometimes it just explodes out
of me. I know I will address what the Bible says about anxiety soon. Faith can
play a huge role in overcoming anxiety and stress.
How do you eat an elephant?
ReplyDeleteOne bite at a time.
Thank you once again for a wonderfully insightful and uplifting post. You have quite effectively described my life and increased my ability to laugh about it. Which I believe is a good thing. I enjoy this blog very much as I can relate to much of the content and it helps me try to "help me". I am so glad that I stumbled upon it one morning.
ReplyDeleteLike those you have mentioned within this post, I cannot afford therapy. I do take Buspar, which as far as I know is not particularly addictive and while it is not magic bullet, it mainly helps keep me from having a complete and total meltdown most days. I have not taken it for an extremely long time, just during the past 15 months while I have experienced some increase negative life stressors. (Just thought I might throw that out there for anyone who thought all that could be given for GAD were more powerful, high risk meds.)
But more than help with obtaining some kind of increased sense of normalcy within my particular circumstantial abnormalities...this blog has helped point me back on a path I had wondered away from. This blog has helped me to find a quiet place to think and examine myself and my experiences and to help open my ears back to that still small voice that had never stopped calling my name...there are not words that can express the gratitude I have to the author of this blog for that, outside of: May God Richly Bless You, John the NP..:)
For me, this blog is a breath of much needed fresh air and illuminating sunshine.
Again, thank you.
Now...Blog on...:0)